We're Fine │ The 12-Week Couples Workbook Nobody Thinks They Need

You are not fighting. That is not the good news you think it is.

Researchers sorted 509 couples who had divorced. Only half were the loud ones. The rest looked like you.

We’re Fine is a 12 week workbook for couples who are getting along. 108 questions in three escalating sets. You each answer alone in your own copy, then you trade books and read before either of you speaks. Twenty minutes a week. Four hours in total.

Built on the structure of two published studies: Aron 1997 on structured escalating questions, and Finkel 2013 in Psychological Science on brief private writing. Shipped as two matte paperbacks, one for each of you, because a book you read alone cannot ask you anything.

Not therapy, not treatment, not a diagnosis.